Punch you in the Facebook
January 26, 2009 9:30 am Culture, PersonalI’m continually pressured by my friends as they try to get me to join Facebook. And every time they ask me, I tell them no.
I really have zero interest in that trendy social networking crap. (I used to be a member of MySpace many years ago, but wisely got the hell out of there right as it was turning into a massive cesspool of human depravity.) I don’t want to reconnect with people I went to high school or college with; as I’ve made clear in the past, I didn’t have many friends back then, and the ones I did have mostly turned out to be false ones. Those weren’t pleasant times in my life; why the hell would I want to bring all that shit back up again?
In the increasingly digital world we live in, I’m already a member of various websites, forums, and so on. Adding one of Facebook’s magnitude into the mix would be the straw that broke the camel’s back, since there’s an absolute deluge of shit waiting for you every time you sign in. (I’ve watched my girlfriend prune copious amounts of garbage out of her Facebook inbox every time she logs in.)
I don’t care how popular Facebook is. I’m just not interested. I’m trying to live more “in the now,” and not focus on times past. Facebook and its ilk are just a giant step backwards.


January 26th, 2009 at 10:30 AM
I hear that. I’ve had several people after me to get one of those things too, and I’m always telling them “not a chance”. And it’s for the same reason as you; I don’t want most of the people from my past to find me (not that any of them would be inclined to do so – if any of them even remember me at all – but that’s beside the point). Last.fm is as close as I’m ever gonna get to a social network, and the only reason I signed up for it is because it is specifically music oriented.
And it keeps all kinds of statistics about my iTunes and iPod listening habits which the numbers dork in me likes.
January 31st, 2009 at 12:16 PM
My wife and I “sold out” a few weeks after people kept bugging us to get Facebook pages. The best thing about Facebook: Piece of Flair.